Respite or Boredom?

 

Respite or Boredom?

 

For the Caregiver it is considered respite.  There is a need to escape and enjoy the things that make you relax and be able to think clearly. The sound of the surf eases the turmoil inside and the wind chases the fuzzy thoughts away. 

 

For the one being cared for, it is often boredom.  There is too much time.  There is too much time to remember the things that once were. There are years of inactivity, watching old people get older and realizing that you are one of them, ahead.

 

I prayed a prayer yesterday.  I prayed that God would give me a key to what would be fulfilling to a friend of mine.  I was able to walk outside, get in my car, drive away.  Her life has taken a drastic turn and she is now confined to a room in a nursing facility.  Unless she gets her strength back, she won't be able to decide for herself what is respite and what is boring. 

 

Because we lose strength and slow down physically, doesn't mean our mind and memories do.  So, today I pray God gives you (the caregiver) insight into what would fulfill your care receiver and bring you both respite!



So many can no longer fly alone - they need our help.